Now boost your self-esteem and remove
the negativity about yourself.You can get to
a place where life feels great again too. A
place where your relationships work, and
you’re not afraid to be who you really are.

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Boost Your Self-esteem

Raise your self-esteem and remove the negativity about yourself.You can get to a place where life feels great again too.

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Hi, I’m Ruairi Stewart, a Self-Esteem Specialist and Relationship Coach. I first graduated with a BSc degree in Psychology and then went on to do a postgraduate in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

I then moved abroad to qualify in individuals, couples and family therapy, and that’s where I found my passion!

I could see that conditioning and dynamics rooted in relationships, whether family or romantic, have a huge impact on self esteem and quality of life.

I’ve dedicated my career to helping people change their people pleasing behaviour and escape the pitfalls of low self-esteem that keep them stressed, frustrated and stuck in a rut.



I cannot begin to thank you enough for your program, honestly it was such an eye opening experience for me. I spent years believing everything that I was told by my husband, believing that no matter what I tried to do to please him and make everyone else happy, everything was always my fault. Your coaching opened my eyes to the reality of my situation and since I gathered the courage to leave that toxic environment I have not looked back. For the first time in nearly 12 years, I am finally feeling happy and content again. At last I finally feel like "me", I am being honest to my authentic self and I absolutely love it. Seriously, thank you so much for everything, your course was a game changer for me

- Sarah Friel

Cannot recommend Happy Whole services enough! Not only is Ruairi the utmost professional, but he is also genuinely a really nice, cool and down to earth person that creates a comfortable and safe environment to chat about anything. The fact that you can speak with him from anywhere is a huge plus. Whether that be the comfort of your own home or while traveling. He always leaves you feeling empowered and equipped to take on the next challenge. Thank you, Ruairi for everything you have done for me!!

- Adam Cummings

Thank you Ruairi, you've changed my life in such an amazing way.. Yes I have the odd low day, but work through them with your guidelines and they work. Thank you

- Charles Doherty

Your very good. Coming to you was the best thing I ever did, you helped me so much- thank you ---- so much for that. You are excellent at what you do

- Mary Rice

When I first came across Ruairi I felt like what he was saying was personally directed at me and what I was going through at that time. I'd done Councilling briefly and had a bad experience but Ruairi completely changed how I viewed councilling after speaking with him. He has not only helped me along my path to heal but has helped me put in place all the tools I need for moving forward in my life. I can't recommend him enough, genuinely the most comfortable chat space

- Ryan Hannigan

Awh thank you so much Ruairi, honestly your course just gave me everything I needed to see that I deserved and could achieve so much more. Thank you

- Sharon Byrne

Yes! It's at night mostly I find myself smiling at the thought of finally being free to talk to who I want and do what I want when I want. I'm in a new relationship now and my god it's S0000 different to toxic shite I've left behind your self esteem course helped massively in getting me to where I am now and also the daily stories to help remind me that I am worth something. Thank you

- Paula Yates

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